Wednesday, June 9, 2010

Completing Him Challenge

Keeping with my current goals, I've decided to take part in this challenge. I think the hardest thing for me to do since being married is to step outside myself more frequently and put C first. He works so hard and treats me like royalty every day of the week. He's the only person who can make me laugh when I'm so angry I can't even speak. He's patient with me 100% of the time. I don't know that he's ever yelled at me, or even raised his voice in anger.

This is not a challenge to take my desires, wants, wishes, needs, etc. out of our marriage. Marriage doesn't work that way. In my mind, I would ideally be able to completely forget myself because I trust C to do the same for me. I know it's possible, and I'm going to take the first steps to getting there! We really have a great marriage and I'm blown away every day at how blessed I am. This is a challenge to improve myself. C is not forcing me or pressuring me or anything. I simply want to be a better wife, and the outline of this challenge makes sense to me as a vehicle for helping me achieve that.

I would love to have you join me!

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  1. :) I love that you're joining me in this :)

  2. good for you. marriage is something to constantly work on. since we took our little class and now are teaching it, this year we have especially been working on it and it has been great. we love reviewing all we need to do and making an effort with it.

  3. you bet! I think it's a great idea! good find. :)